“A celebrity is one who is known to many persons he is glad he doesn’t know.”
— Lord Byron
Every couple of months or so, I see a movie with a distinctly good looking male lead, watch a couple of press interviews with the aforementioned actor, and then bam… All new celebrity crush.
I have seen some good looking guys in the flesh, arguably, these men are just as good looking as any number of the Hollywood A-listers Us Weekly insists is the perfect man. But whilst the guys that I’ve met might have been handsome, hot even, with a genuine personality to boot — they’re just not the same. For every drop dead gorgeous Tom, Dick or Harry, he will always pale in comparison to the likes of Ryan Reynolds or Christian Bale. Why? Because the latter are big name actors and grace the cover of People Magazine. They’re celebrities. And in the society we live in, celebrities are worshipped as if they were Olympians (the Greek god variety). Where does that leave the ordinary, non famous folk? Quite possibly stuffed.
We’re always striving for something better, something perfect. And airbrushed actors, in a lot of peoples eyes, are sadly, the pinnacle of human perfection. Once upon a time I was in a relationship, I use this in the loosest sense possible, with a guy… Well back then he was more of a boy. He took umbrage with the fact that I liked comics and superheroes. Not because it was geeky, no, because it gave me an unrealistic expectation of men. Well I think that’s ridiculous, I know full well that if I’m ever mugged, Batman isn’t going to swoop in and save the day. 9 out of 10 times, I’m going to have to save myself. What would have been more understandable for my ex to take issue with, is my liking for Ryan Reynolds and Christian Bale. They are real people. Poster boys for what a ‘real man’ should be like. A chiselled jaw with full beard growth that hides the soul of poet.
I know they’re just like the rest of us, only with bucket loads of cash, but being famous — it adds a certain mystique. It makes them more attractive. Take Robert Pattinson, if he was working at the tills in Asda — wouldn’t give him as seconds glance. But I suppose the millions of Twi-hards would disagree with me. For now, I suppose I can only lament the situation, right after looking at the latest pictures of Jake Gyllenhaal about town.